Living at home with parents and dating
If you were living elsewhere, your parents probably wouldn’t know anything, but because you live under their roof, they know how often you’re going on dates, and if you’re actually good at it. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t people who will turn you down for doing what makes sense financially.If someone starts treating you badly because of this, then ditch them.Don’t overcompensate or try to offer too many details — just put it out there and deal wit hit.Parents knowing more about your dating life than you’d like. A lot of people know that it’s hard out there in the job market and that many people are living at home.
They're always like “Oh my gosh, how's he not found his own place?
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Ask about his timetable for living at homedoes he have a plan to leave? Helping to pay rent, buying groceries, cleaning, and cooking for his parents are all good signs.
\n My mother never understood what I liked about Hugh, my banker boyfriend with the sarcastic sense of humor and pin-striped suspenders, who would often come over to "watch movies" in my room while we were both living at home postcollege...until she walked in on us having sex and saw his, um, biggest asset. Somewhere between "How do you want your steak cooked? My crime wasn't that I was DTF, but that I didn't lock the door.